Wesley Michael Ditmer
March 8, 1991 ~ August 10, 2025
Wesley Michael Ditmer, 34, of Columbus, passed away on Sunday, August 10, 2025. He was born in Dayton, OH on March 8, 1991 to Buddy Ditmer and Nicki Tanner Ditmer.
Wesley's enthusiasm for sports was unparalleled. He was an accomplished athlete who relished the thrill of competition and the camaraderie of team sports. Whether he was scoring a goal on the soccer field, making a three-pointer on the basketball court, hitting a home run in baseball, throwing a touchdown in football, or sinking a putt on the golf course. His love for the game was only matched by his loyalty as a fan, cheering on his favorite teams with an unwavering spirit.
More than his athletic pursuits, Wesley treasured the time spent with his family. His role as a father was the one he held dearest. The bond he shared with his daughter was truly special, filled with moments of laughter, learning, and love. He cherished every opportunity to make her smile, creating memories that she will hold close forever.
Wesley's talents extended beyond the playing fields to the kitchen, where he found joy in cooking. He had a knack for creating delicious meals that brought his family and friends together around the dining table. His culinary adventures often led him to his favorite restaurant, Taku.
The loss of Wesley Michael Ditmer is deeply felt by all who had the pleasure of knowing him. His legacy is one of love, passion, and an unwavering commitment to the things that mattered most to him. He will be remembered for his big heart, doing anything for anyone in their time of need. Wesley's memory will be cherished and kept alive in the hearts of his loved ones, who will continue to honor his life by embodying the joy and kindness he spread so effortlessly. Though he has left this world far too soon, the impact of his presence will be felt for generations to come.
Funeral services will be held at 5 p.m. Saturday, August 16, 2025 at Jewell-Rittman Family Funeral Home with Rev. Steve O’Connell officiating. Calling hours will be from 3 p.m. until service time Saturday at the funeral home.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Jewell-Rittman Family Funeral Home to help with expenses.
Survivors include his mother, Nicki (Troy Davis) Tanner of Columbus, IN; daughter, Mylah Ditmer and her mother Kayla Burns both of Columbus, IN; brother, JD (Sarah) Blaze of Vandalia, OH; grandparents, Janet Rose of Columbus, IN and Butch (Carolyn) Tanner of Dayton, OH; nieces and nephews, Amon and Vylette Blaze; aunts and uncles, Tara (Jay) Jordan, Matthew Rose, Amanda (Brent) Burton, Kelly (Robert) Tanner and several cousins.
He was preceded in death by his father, Charles “Buddy” Ditmer; grandfather, Dwight Rose and great grandparents.






Wes was so stubborn, he was there for me when I needed him most, encouraging me to always keep going. He treated me and my sisters as his own. In elementary school I knew I wanted to play basketball, I had my mind set on it. He’d always go out of his way to take mylah and auntie to go play some ball… he knew I sucked, but encouraged me anyway. Wes was the type of person who would climb the highest mountain if it meant seeing us smile. Rest easy Wes. Me and the girls are gonna miss you so much.
So much I want to say, yet I’m at a loss for words. Rest Easy, Wes..
Wes was truly one of the best guys i had ever known who stood on his word and was loyal as they come he was the best friend a man could ask for his loss is definetly going to impact everyone who knew wes and to his family anything is not to much to ask if u need anything im here 8123995601 wesvi love ya bro and in my eyes you are a legend brother fly hi and rest easy till i see u again
He was a friend that never judge me through highschool and a friend that would always answer a call through we didn’t talk much in the last few years I’ll miss u brother fly high you will always be a GREAT friend you will be missed my prayers to the family
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Wesley was a very good friend of mine! He loved talking about his beautiful beautiful baby momma and his daughter! We had a bunch of laughter since I met him for the first time! It was too soon for him to go! R.I.P wes!!
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Wes was def one of a kind but he was very caring he would come over and just color with me help me clean and just talk he most def will be missed damnit man!
Wes will be missed by many. He had that smile to melt a heart ….or a babysitter for his little girl. When I first met him I was told if he comes have him come back when baby momma was home ….well he smiled and let’s say he was sitting on porch with glass if tea when she did … we may of had some words over the years but Wes was a good man and loved his daughter. We will keep him alive through her.. R.I.P..WES WE LO E YOU MISS YOU WAY TOO SOON
He was a good friend of mine he looked out for me I did the same for him Wes fly high brother I’ll never forget you ima miss you though.
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Wes was a good dude, i shared memories with him on both sides, in the madness and in recovery. He loved playing ball. Gonna miss ya dude, rip my friend. 🙏🙌🤘
The last week Wes was in town , we spoke about the Bible, shared many thoughts about the Bible.. I know in my heart that he made it to heaven.That he loved his baby with his heart and soul , he was one of a kinda there will never be another Wesley
Wesley stay few days with me and helped me clean up a friends apartment who was elderly, Wesley being silly wearing the old man’s hat,a sense of humor out of this world. This night I experienced every emotion with Wesley..It was a night I will never forget .. memories were made those few days.. I miss u wes
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FLY HIGH WES!!! We love you bubba ALWAYS AND ALWAYS MY BROTHER LOVE FROM THE ROTHROCK AND SHRUM SIDE OF THE FAMILY R.I.P.
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Thank you for being an awesome friend you’re going to be sadly missed may you rest in peace
You will be sadly missed, fly high My Friend Wes Ditmer.
Everyone loved Wes he was such a nice guy,it’s sad we lose so many beautiful lives to addiction,I’ll be praying for the family and friends.
I love you bro I found out while I was in rehab you one of the real ones compared to many I know love you bro fly high with all then kings bro