Tammy Kay Shafer

Tammy Kay Shafer, 68, of Columbus, Indiana, passed away on May 27, 2026, at her home in Columbus, Indiana.

Tammy was born on November 25, 1957, in Columbus, Indiana, to William Howard Crider and Cora Chena Coffey Crider, both of whom preceded her in death. She was known to family and friends simply as Tammy, and she lived a life marked by kindness, warmth, and a genuine love for the people around her. She was friendly, loving, and adventurous, and those qualities were reflected in the way she carried herself and in the many relationships she built throughout her life.

Tammy spent 40 years serving others as a server at Bob Evans, where she retired in 2025. Her long career was a reflection of her strong work ethic, her dependable nature, and her ability to make others feel welcome. She took pride in her work and formed many lasting friendships over the years.

She enjoyed traveling and embraced the opportunities to see new places and make new memories. Tammy had many friends, and she treasured the connections she made throughout her life. Her adventurous spirit and loving personality made her a joy to be around, and she will be remembered for the happiness she brought to others and the comfort she gave so freely.

Tammy is survived by her sisters, Beth Patrick and Pamela (Larry) Crider; her brother, William “Buddy” Crider and his wife, Jula; and her nieces and nephews, Billie, Marty, Scott, Megan, Jason, Michele, Shawn, Emily, Dustin, and Ryan. She is also survived by her honorary grandchildren, Oliver, Theodore, Aurora, Ember, Calvin, Baby Patrick, Jack, Jill & Jane Woods who called her Meme. In addition to her parents, she was preceded in death by her husband, Larry Shafer; her sister, Terri L. Tomlinson and nephews, Matt, Michael and Jesse.

Tammy’s life was one of devotion to family, friendship, and the simple joys that made each day meaningful. She will be remembered with love for her gentle heart, her welcoming spirit, and the many ways she touched the lives of those who knew her. Her memory will remain a blessing to all who were fortunate enough to share in her life.

Friends and family are invited to gather to celebrate Tammy’s life for a time of visitation to be held on Friday May 29, 2026 from 4:00 p.m. until 8:00 p.m. in Jewell-Rittman Funeral Service and Crematory. Tammy will be laid to rest next to her husband in Garland Brook Cemetery.

You are invited to view her video tribute and share fond memories with the family via the funeral home website: www.jewellrittman.com.