Ivan "Gene" Eugene Gross

Ivan "Gene" Eugene Gross, age 94, passed away peacefully at home on January 3, 2025, surrounded by the warmth and love of his family. Born on St. Patrick's Day in 1930, Gene came into the world on the family farm in Little York, Indiana—a place that would nurture his love of the land, family, and community. Gene's childhood was a tapestry of lively adventures on the 80-acre farm he shared with his grandparents, Robert and Elizabeth "Cena" (Franklin) Gross, his parents, Clarence and Della (Elliott) Gross, and his brother Robert. Summers were filled with blackberry-picking escapades, tending to crops with a horse and plow, caring for the family cows, and the joy of family gatherings that turned their home into a bustling "summer hotel" filled with friends and relatives. Music was integral to Gene's upbringing, thanks to his grandparents, James and Arminda (Nicholson) Elliott, who fostered a musical family. On the first Friday of each month, relatives and friends would gather at Moody's store in Little York to play fiddles and banjos until midnight. Gene also cherished his time with Grandpa Gross, who would lift him high to reach the sweetest berries. Although this bond was brief—Gene was just three years old when his grandpa passed away—it foreshadowed the deep connection he would later have with his grandchildren and great-grandchildren. Growing up during the Great Depression, Gene developed a quiet resilience and a profound appreciation for simple joys like gardening, sharing meals, and spending time with loved ones. His faith was nurtured at Little York Christian Church, where his mother played the piano, and Gene was baptized in a nearby creek. These early years instilled in him a sense of duty and a deep love for his community. This love was tested on December 7, 1941, when Gene's family gathered around the radio after church and heard the shocking news of Pearl Harbor. The world seemed to stand still as their small community grappled with the implications of war. Gene vividly remembered the somber atmosphere and the quiet resolve that spread through Little York as many young men, including his cousin, enlisted to serve. Though Gene once hid in a stack of tires to avoid his first day of school, his sharp mind and curiosity soon propelled him ahead. After skipping first grade, he attended Little York schools for grades 2 through 11 and finished his senior year at Salem High School, graduating in 1948. He truly had to go uphill both ways in the snow to get to school, a story his grandchildren fondly recount. While in high school, he was a member of the basketball teams, and his grandchildren love to look at his high school team photos proudly displayed in his home. Gene met the love of his life, Marilyn Janet Clark, on a blind date in 1952. They quickly fell in love and were married that August at the East Columbus Methodist parsonage, officiated by Gilbert Curry and witnessed by close friends. Their marriage was a testament to devotion and partnership, spanning 72 years. Together, they built a life rich in love, laughter, and adventure, including motorcycle trips through the Smoky Mountains with friends from church and memorable family vacations. Gene and Marilyn's daughter, Debbie, brought them endless joy. Gene beamed with pride when Debbie began playing the piano and eagerly anticipated her recitals. His pride grew even stronger when she graduated from college, becoming the first in their family to achieve that milestone. The family shared many memorable experiences, including attending church, working at Hilltop Camp, biking, enjoying family vacations, fishing trips to Lake Monroe, and visiting the state fair—a tradition they continued with their grandchildren. Gene's life was a remarkable journey filled with a wealth of experiences and talents. He picked tomatoes for local farmers in high school, climbed poles, and cut trees at Jackson County REMC alongside his father. His entrepreneurial spirit shone through after high school when he sold insurance and Fuller Brush products door-to-door. However, his artistic talents and attention to detail led him to drafting school, culminating in a position at Cummins in 1955. Over his 40-year tenure, Gene rose from draftsman to Project Team Leader, retiring in 1995. Retirement opened a new chapter for Gene, granting him the invaluable gift of time, which he devoted to his grandchildren, who were the joy of his life. Whether teaching them to garden, letting them ride in a wheelbarrow, or pulling them in a red wagon behind his tractor, he cherished every moment spent fostering their happiness. Gene's hands were always busy planting his famous "Papaw's hot peppers," perfecting popcorn in his fireplace, or sketching cartoons for his East Columbus Christian Church Sunday school class. Faith was the cornerstone of Gene's life, guiding his actions and decisions. A dedicated member of East Columbus Christian Church since 1960, he and his wife Marilyn built lifelong friendships through their church community. He often prayed during family gatherings, expressing thanks. His green thumb was legendary, as Gene and Marilyn nurtured a large garden each year. Additionally, he cherished the simple joys of fishing for catfish and looked forward to mushroom hunting in April to seek out the elusive morels. As an avid racing fan, Gene spent over 50 years attending the Indianapolis 500 and cheering for his favorite NASCAR drivers. His enthusiasm for racing was infectious, with memories that even his granddaughter would recall, remembering her birthdate as it coincided with Jeff Gordon's number. When he wasn't cheering from the sidelines, Gene enjoyed riding his Gold Wing motorcycle, whether enjoying scenic trips or making quick grocery runs. He also had a soft spot for Westerns and loved sharing his favorite meal of soup beans, potatoes, and cornbread—a dish that echoed his humble beginnings. Gene is survived by his beloved wife, Marilyn; his daughter Debbie (Joe); grandchildren Andrew (Kelsey) Brougher, Becca (Adam) Davis, and Rachel Brougher; and great-grandchildren Benaiah, Junie, and Jedidiah Brougher and Charlie and Addie Davis. He also leaves behind a niece, Jenny Collins, cousins Jim Elliott, Barbara Ann Hoagland, Rita Routh, and many friends who cherished his humor, kindness, and wisdom. Preceding him in death were his parents, brother, and nephew, John Gross. Gene's life was a testament to hard work, faith, and the joy of family. He leaves a legacy of love, exemplified by cherished memories of Friday night sleepovers with his grandchildren, adventures to festivals and flea markets, and leisurely summer days riding on the lawnmower or playing in the yard. His humor, stories, and unwavering love will forever resonate in the hearts of those who knew him. One of his last heartfelt messages to his daughter was, "You've been good to me." In his final month, much of which was spent in the hospital, Marilyn held his hand daily, ensuring he felt her unwavering love and presence. A celebration of Gene's life will be held at Jewell-Rittman Family Funeral Home on Friday, January 10, with a viewing from 11:00 AM to 1:00 PM followed by a service. In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be made to Samaritan's Purse. Rest well, Papaw. Your legacy of love and kindness will live on in all of us who were blessed to know you.