Thomas M. McNay
September 20, 1968 ~ October 4, 2024
Thomas M. McNay II, aged 56, of Columbus, Indiana, went to be with the Lord on October 4, 2024. Born on September 20, 1968, in Peru, Indiana, Tom was a kind-hearted and gentle soul whose intelligence was matched only by his kindness.
He was the beloved son of Marlene L. Hall McNay and the late Thomas M. McNay. He leaves behind a legacy of love with his cherished mother, his beloved golden retriever Beau, and his cat Smokey. Tom is also survived by his aunt Judy Hall of Salem, Indiana and cousins Gina Nease, Julie Campbell, Beth Schonfeld, Tim Catlett, Tana Morris, and Tia Robbins. He was predeceased by his grandparents Mildred McNay, Henry and Lucille Hall, and aunts Coach Terry Hall and Virginia Baker.
Tom was a proud alumnus of Columbus East High School, graduating in 1987. “Tommie” shone brightly as a baseball player, contributing to the Olympians' memorable journey to the state final four in his senior year. His passion for the game was evident in every play, every pitch, and every hit.
Professionally, Tom was a Cybersecurity Engineer for Columbus Regional Hospital, a field where his intelligence and diligence in IT were invaluable assets. Beyond his work, Tom enjoyed bowling and was an ardent fan of Duke Basketball. His love for go-kart racing reflected his zest for life and competition.
A funeral service will be held at 1:00 p.m. Thursday, October 10, 2024 at the Jewell – Rittman Family Funeral Home with Pastor Rick Hillard officiating. Visitation will be held from 11:00 a.m. until the time-of-service Thursday. He will be laid to rest in Garland Brook Cemetery.
Thomas M. McNay II will be deeply missed but fondly remembered for his gentle spirit, kind heart, and the joy he brought to those around him. His memory will continue to inspire and comfort us all.
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I’m sorry to hear about Tom. We worked together at Wendy’s in high school and our parents worked together at the Republic. Thoughts and prayers with the family. Marilyn (Lagneau) Kubicek
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Marti I am so sorry for your loss
Your family is in my thoughts and prayers. God bless
Tommy was such a beautiful soul deep within. I remember him as a young boy, eager and full of energy when he came to the basketball camps at the University of Kentucky where I coached with his Aunt Terry Hall. She loved having him there as much as he enjoyed being there. We had reconnected over the past few years and talked by phone and on Facebook, sharing memories from the past. I shared this sad news with our team with whom I am still in touch. They are as heartbroken as I am. RIP dear Tommy. You will always have a place in my heart.
I worked with Tom at BSS. I’m so sorry to hear of his passing. My prayers go out to Marlene and the rest of those left behind.